Where do we go from here?



I don't know about the pedestal thing, I think that a good combination of pampering and space will turn any woman on. In my case if a guy were to open a door for me that's cool but pulling the chair out or opening my car door...not cool. When a guy is 'fussing' over me I just politely tell them that I'm not that girl and that I can do things on my own.

Girls... would you drive an hour and a half, one-way, twice a week, to see your man for a short while both times?

Champy....for sex, yes

otherwise NO WAY!!!

Once a week yes, twice a week...I think that's pushing it. If it were me I'd want to know why he couldn't drive the hour and a half to come to see me the other day.

This reminds me of Peter Griffin when he meets Lauren Conrad: "Everytime I watch your show, I get wood. Where do we go from here?"



This would depend on the situation. If it were for a person I was casually dating, no. If it were someone I had been with for a long time and was in love with, yes.

Seems reasonable enough, not that I'd ask for that from you or anything(mostly cause you probably aren't near me) but it's always good to know that.

Daniel

If it were in a one week span, heck yeah. After a couple weeks, it's his turn to travel. I love driving though, so if he always filled my tank, I'd drive to Timbuktu for him! Or if we had nice experiences together, whether expensive or not. But if it was twice a week for weeks, and it was a 20 minute dinner at McDonald's, or watching a movie on his couch then forget it. I'm a simple girl, but I need more than that. But it all depends on how serious we are. Funny, cause currently I'm interested in a guy that lives an hour and a half away, so if things do get serious, I'll be dealing with this very shortly. Yay.

for sex, probably if it was really good. although I would also wonder why he couldnt drive once a week. I've done the long distance thing (bf in the army, went to iraq, cheated on me and went horribly wrong) and I wasted too much time, wouldnt do it again

We can only go down from here.

A lot of women willing to travel long distances for sex. The impression I got is that women would rather fake sleep that to have sex, let alone travel 1.5 hours. Guess it's just me.

Depends on the woman. Let me assure you--there are women out there who love sex.

Are you sure you're doing it right?

<-- my going down face

Well, where the heck are THOSE women? Those are probably the same women that are looking for the good looking, well-built type men. Trust me, I've been on those phone lines and such, I know what some women are looking for when it comes to sex.

Daniel

Daniel,

I don't think you know what women are looking for from a phone line. JMO...women want a man that can make her...you know. If he's packing sufficient heat and knows how to use it then any man can get laid. My cousin is terribly ugly, grotesquely overweight, an arsehole and he is a drug user but he gets mad tail. He just knows how to treat a lady and from what I hear the ladies appreciate his 'talents'. So get that stamina up, practice those oral techniques, and try to have sex that benefits her first and you last. You may only get friends with benefits out of this but at least you're getting laid.

Um, obviously you're looking right at some of "those women"! I'm included.

I'm not looking for the well-built type of guys. I'm just looking for the same kinds of guys all women are looking for. My advice to you is stop dating girls who apparently hate sex--those tend to be girls who are super insecure and have issues and hang ups with sex.

I think he means that he climbs telephone poles and peeps in on couples, hanging from their phone lines.

Guess, I'm just not married to one of them.




I think so. I have two kids so my technique is sound.

Just because you can make a baby does not mean your technique is sound.
You gotta think about her. It doesn't take much to get a guy to his happy place.

What a weird pun!

i just didn't want to sound too vulgar. That's all. But it is true. It doesn't take much for a man.

First off, I tried hanging from a telephone wire, and those things hurt like heck when it rains cause you get electrocuted and everything. It SUCKS!!!!
Second off, I have some 'techniques', I just don't get to showcase them cause I don't have a woman to um........hmmmmm, how do I say this without sounding naughty(like we haven't crossed that line already lol) try it out on.
Lastly, I guess I have to be a douchbag cause I guess they get all the ladies no matter WHAT they look like lol.

Daniel

True story. Like I've said before, I'll take a funny guy anyday. I've actually dated a lot of dorks because they make me laugh. I think it is also true that girls that dont like sex are totally insecure, which are often the hot high maintainence girls that most guys want. p.s. the best lay was the computer geek who watched a ton of porn and got a lot of pointers from it.

I don't even know what to say to that.

What? I know nothing about that...

Just because the deposit made it to the bank it doesn't mean you filled out the slip correctly (you know what I mean)

Is that like the saying that the safest way to doubling your money is folding it over and putting it in your pocket?

I think I will just have to stay bad cause I'm not going to study porn.

I would travel for a BC.

What's a BC?

hmm trying to figure out what a BC is...

Black chocolate? British Columbia?

birth control? boy child?

Bloody camel?

sorry, it's a booty call

Well, who WOULDN'T travel for a nice old fashioned booty call?
As far as the porn thing goes, I have no idea what you're talking about, I've never even heard of porn, much less seen one Ok fine, I'll admit it, everything I learned in life, I learned from porn ok? Happy now?

Daniel

^
That explains a lot

I knew it! Another thing that is helpful- being completely selfless.

You're not alone. It's a good teacher!

Ha ha my mind totally went to anatomy.

Your mind is always there.

me too Liz

Only on yours

What? About my personality? Or about my acting skills?


I can be completely selfless. I don't NEED to be the first one done.



I thought so.....not sure what the heart was for the reply post was, but I always thought it was. Especially when it comes to math.

Daniel

I would hope that you are rarely the first one done!!!!!

I'm putting this in spoilers because I don't want the kids reading it (stay out kids)

About your ideas on women and sex. Porn is a great place to get some pointers on positions or ways to make the moment last but by all means it should not be seen as the end all be all source off sex education. Talking to your parter about their likes and dislikes it really the ONLY way to learn how to satisfy them. Also watching how your partner pleasures themselves will help you to figure out how they would like to be pleasured by you.

I will definately do that.......if I get a partner.
Oh, and wouldn't YOU like to know spilla

Daniel

This forum is getting more kinky by the day.