Maybe that's why Creed is always in the ladies' room, he is looking for that secret entry.

Now THAT'S the movie that I ended up seeing. I thought I was going to see the movie 'Twister' but I ended up in the wrong theater. Still a good movie though.

Daniel

I can't think of any good questions at the moment...hmm

What's the best VDay pres. a guy could give a serious girlfriend?

Ummm.... his time. I'm a simple girl, just spending the day together is just fine with me. Maybe saying "happy valentine's day" would be good too.

good answer!
some girls are simple and do like just spending quality time together. especially if you two are normally busy people

do something you normally wouldn't do and that will surprise her. pay attention to little things she likes and then do those things on valentine's day. she won't be expecting it!

I'm not much of a VDay person. If you wouldn't do thoughtful, romantic things for me any other day, why go to any trouble just because Hallmark thinks you should? I think when it comes down to it, we girls just want to know you treasure us, and not just one or two days a year. I'd much rather receive a sweet letter or a note that reminds me that I'm special to you. You don't need to spend any money to do that. Maybe I'm too cynical, but I think VDay is way overrated.

I would defintely rather spend money on an experience than a gift. I would love to go away for the weekend somewhere or do something cool together.

My ex made me a memory box. He went to Michaels (a hobby store here in MI, and prob elsewhere as well) and got one of those 'Paint it yourself' jewelry boxes. He decorated it, put a pic of us inside the cover and filled it with little slips of paper reminding me of things we did together over the years. There were about 50 of them.

examples:
"graduation day, I have never seen you happier"
"Little man"
"Making out under the bridal falls"

You get the point.

So by this logic, if you are nothing but good to your woman, and you do nice things to her and pay attention to her and all that stuff that on Valentine's Day you should be a total a--hole to her?

Daniel

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If you ladies could only choose JUST ONE of these following choices in men which one would you choose?:

A rich successful but ugly older man buys you houses and cars and everything you want and takes you out on cruises and vacations because he has alot of free time but treats you like propperty.

A handsome man that loves you with all of his heart but is very poor and struggles to survive and often
works 2-3 jobs and overtime to help provide because he is trying to be a good husband and father.

An average looking man with average pay and sometimes he's nice and sometimes he's a jerk
he sometimes spends time with you but often forgets important things like your birthday and valentines day
and sometimes has you pay when you guys go out...he is good when he tries but he is unpredictable

A gorgeous model/actor who loves you but doesn't show it especially when in public. He's very formal
and likes to please people so much that it seems you are invisible when you are out in the clubs and he's
got a little drug problem but at the moment is under control.

Good question!

Great question! I'd choose the handsome man that loves me with all his heart. The only thing that made that guy unappealing is that he works all the time and I wouldn't see him much. But he's doing it out of love for me and our family. I'm willing to work too, and I'm sure the financial troubles wouldn't be forever. The problem with the rich guy is that he treats me like property. And material things aren't as important to me as love is. The problems with the average looking man is that sometimes he's a jerk. Sure, we all can be jerks sometimes, but the way you word this makes it seem that jerkiness is a habit with him. The model has too many problems: he has a drug problem and ignores me in public. I don't demand constant attention, but it sounds like rather than being a people-pleaser, he puts himself first.

I would choose this gentleman. A good father for my cats is very important to me.

as plain and blunt as angela's answers are they make me laugh so hard sometimes.

she's so into character i often wonder if she really is Angela?

The third one kinda sounds like the guy I am interested in right now. I would probably choose the second guy. It would suck that we wouldn't spend a lot of time together but there are issues with every relationship so could deal with this.

I married the 3rd guy but now we are getting a divorce. I would choose none of these. I choose to no longer settle for less than loving, supportive, and available both physically and emotionally.

^Good choice!

Then you just haven't settled with the best unsupportive, careless, jerk yet. Your time will come.

Thank you, I like to think so.

I think the easy choice to say is the second one, and I think ideally that would be the one I would choose, but I think I might be happier with the average looking man when we are talking about quality of life. I like to do things a lot and would not like a partner that is never there to talk to or do things with. I think I would pick someone that I can spend time with, even if they are jerky sometimes. (sometimes I can be pretty jerky too!)




I think it is Angela too.

Wow, y'all just completely perved out for a few pages there hehe... leave for a month or so and I miss all the fun

Really? I thought it was a good question.

Hm...how about this scenerio(why can't i spell that word right someone help me)?

You get married to the most perfect man in all aspects. It's like a dream, and you say "till death to us part".
He becomes deathly ill and has to have several operations in which he lives in the hospital for a long period of time
and he grows hideously disfigured because of the illness even losing fingers/toes and facial features and he receives hair loss and weird growths on his body and it gets to his brain where he doesn't even hardly know you anymore
but still has a faint memory when you visit him....it seems he is only getting worse and he tells you that all his
money is gone to the hospital and your house and cars will be taken away and you are virtually left with only clothes on your back and the doctor being extremely handsome and caring comes to visit you at home to cheer you up and tells you that he's falling in love with you and brings some wine and gets you buzzed and before he leaves for the night takes you in your arms and tells you "I was doing some work and found that your husband only has a few more days left and his brain/body are completely gone and I know you are sad but I love you and want to be with you" He takes you in his arms and kisses you what do you do?

Vows say "in sickness and in health...til death do us part". The doctor needs to back off. I'm no hussy.

What would you do if you found your husband or bf cheating on you with a girl that you thought was very ugly?

Have your heart torn in two and not be able to eat anything for two weeks, and it still affects you in your current relationships even though it was over 5 years ago.... :/

ooops! that sucks! i feel ya.

i hate seeing cute girls with wanna be gangsters...kind of like that kid on Gran Turino you know the kid that got punked by the three black dudes. yeh those kids annoy me

i hate those guys i see them evrytime i go to the mall they never leave me alone its annoying i have bring my football players with me lol

You have your own football players?

haha thats funny. you bring your football players, bhartz brings his cheerleaders.

bhartz IS a cheerleader.

Girls. When and where is not acceptable for guys to hit on you?
And when and where is it acceptable? We need to know.

At a funeral ceremony is not acceptable. At the funeral after party is acceptable.

Yikes. I don't think I would even make a move at the after party that sounds really desperate. Reminds me of wedding crashers.


What was the main reason you went out with your first boyfriend?

Guess sarcasm doesn't portray well on the internet.

I went out with my first bf because that's what all teenagers were doing at the time.

My favorite cheer is for softball/baseball.

*Sing to the tune of Macho Man* Nacho Nacho pitch. You don't have to swing if it's nach-o (not-yo) pitch.
GO TEAM!!!

I rest my case.

Being hit on while I am at work is tricky. I used to work in fast fod and retail, and it can be flattering to be hit on, so that could be good, but I've had a lot of guys not get hints at all, and have been utterly creeped out and uncomfortable and unable to do my job. So if you hit on a waitress, sales girl, or any other person while they are working, you better be real good at reading signals and know when to cut your losses.



I agree, its what everyone else was doing. The reason I started my first real relationship is that we hung out in a group of mutual friends quite a bit and were somewhat attracted to eachother.

Hm. Very interesting. Who would your dream guy be not referring to looks but his interests, hobbies, and career?

I would prefer if he had similar music interests to mine, obviously that he liked the Office, maybe video games, badminton, hockey, being outside. Career doesn't really matter as long as he's not constantly unemployed

Ok, so years ago, I met a lady online who's into the whole domination/submission thing where she's the 'slave' and we chatted and took a liking to each other. WELL, she ended up getting a bf, and ended up getting pregnant with said bf, then she didn't want the baby, told me she that, and that she was gonna break up with him and be with me. I felt bad because of it, and since I'm not the most confident schmuck in the world, I said no because I don't like when women break up with guys just to be with me. She ended up getting pregnant again, having the baby, marrying the bf. BUT, about a few weeks ago, she said that she left her husband cause she 'fell out of love with him' I still feel kind of responsible because a few weeks before that I think I told her when she IMed me that I don't fool around with married women, so that's just what I think. Anyways, I set 10 conditions on which to take her back and she had til the end of the year, she broke one and she begged me to take her back. I took her back and now she has til the end of next month. The question is: Should I have taken her back? Ladies, should I have taken her back in the first place? I mean, I like her, she seems nice enough, but I don't want the same thing that happened with her hubby to happen to me. Am I overthinking this? Should I just go with it and see what happens?

Daniel

Honestly, I don't think she's worth it dude! She will probably do to you what she's done to her husband. You said she told you she left him, do you even know for sure that she has?

It sounds to me like she started talking to you a few weeks ago, then broke up with her husband, then you set those 10 conditions and she's already broken them? She can't possibly be divorced by now so technically you're messing with another mans wife right?

If you're hell bent on being with this girl, make sure she takes care of herself and kids before you two hook up. That means finalizing the divorce, making sure no one needs therapy (because divorce is hard on everyone). She should probably be alone before jumping into a relationship with you, otherwise you're most likely a rebound. Be her friend, keep the rest on hold for a while!

She sounds like a total flake. I'd stay away.

Sounds a little crazy. The whole baby thing totally is a red flag, cuz it sounds like a Kelly where she would tell a guy she was pregnant so he would stay with her, especially if she chooses not to keep it but then (no offense about this, I'm just blunt) is not smart enough to not get pregnant again, and then choose to have it. It all seems very manipulative to me. I am aware that I am only hearing parts of the story, but hey you asked us to judge it!

Run far away Daniel!

Daniel, with all due respect to both you and your lady, I would say that perhaps taking her back wasn't the best idea. Granted, all I know is what you've written here, so without knowing both sides of the full story I can't really pass any sort of judgment. However, she seems as if she isn't sure what she wants. Regardless of what decision you make, please be extremely careful! Make sure you weigh the pros and cons of your decision as well. I hope things work out in the best way possible for you!

First off, why aren't more of you hot and easy? Second, when I do something my gf doesn't like, rather than telling me, she says everything's fine and then does little things that irritate me to let me know. What's up with this BS? Thirdly, if you lay an egg once a month anyways why don't more of you sell them for big bucks to those ads in the newspaper? If my gf did that every month we wouldn't have to work.

I have a ?. Dan why are you a douche?

You're closed-minded.